Choose
You.
Not because you love others less.
Because you finally love yourself enough.
I'm Dominque Pope.
Speaker · Creator of the Choose You Framework™
I help LGBTQ+ women stop abandoning themselves, choose themselves without guilt, and intentionally build lives they no longer have to recover from.
You were never meant to lose yourself trying to keep someone else.
So many of us learned to shrink to be chosen. To perform for love. To stay in rooms that made us smaller. You are allowed to leave. You are allowed to rebuild. You are allowed to be the reason you feel safe.
A trusted voice for
intentional living.
Dominque Pope is a keynote speaker, personal development leader, and the creator of the Choose You Framework™ — a proven path for LGBTQ+ women navigating divorce, heartbreak, and the quiet work of rediscovering who they are.
Her work sits at the intersection of honesty, healing, and design. She doesn't teach women how to perform strength. She teaches them how to come home to themselves.
"The life you want isn't built by fear or chance. It's built by faith and intention."
Three movements.
One decision: yourself.
Recognize
Name the patterns, roles, and relationships you've been shrinking inside of. Honesty is the first act of self-love.
Reclaim
Return to the self you left behind. Reclaim your voice, your body, your time, and your right to choose yourself first.
Rebuild
Design a life you no longer have to recover from — built by faith and intention, not fear or chance.
Keynotes that land in the body.
Dom is invited to speak at conferences, corporate summits, universities, and community events. Her talks are equal parts sermon and strategy — always leaving audiences with the language and tools to choose themselves.
Intentional Living Sessions.
Private, focused sessions for LGBTQ+ women ready to stop surviving their own life. We move through the Choose You Framework™ together — recognizing the pattern, reclaiming the self, rebuilding on your terms.
The Choose You Workbook.
A quiet, honest companion for the woman who is done abandoning herself. Prompts, reflections, and the first pages of the framework — delivered straight to your inbox.
No spam. Ever. Just the work.